Saturday, December 31, 2011

2011 Recap

2011 was a great year for us.  Here are a few of the highlights...

Hawaii with 15 Gustavus students...

North shore vacation with Cher, Laur, Jill, Tony, and Tricia...

Tenure service...

Finishing inside work at the cabin...

Livestock fun run organizing...

Gardening with friends...

Being pregnant...

A week at Remer with the Knutson/Sutter/Lassig family...
 
Garage building...

Book writing boot camp...

Eco-Tri...


Maya's birth...

Sabbatical...

Visits from west coast friends...

Tony and Tricia's wedding...

Wednesday night small group...

Thursday night crew...

Menards...

Living in Rundstrom...

Family of three...


I wonder what 2012 holds for us?

Thursday, December 29, 2011

Our days

Usually the two weeks between the end of the fall semester and the beginning of J-term are filled with grading and course prep.  This year has been very different.  Without the students around, days are pretty quiet.  I've packed away some of the Christmas gear and we are making transitions between some of the baby gear and clothes.  We put away the swing and bouncy seat and replaced them with an exesaucer and jumperoo.  As soon as she masters them, I'll post photos.  She's basically out of her 3 month clothes and into 6 month stuff, so I've spent time packing and unpacking clothes. 

I'm using my new kitchen tools to try out some new recipes.  Tonight is tomato basil bisque and tomorrow we'll try peach-whiskey BBQ chicken. 

One thing I haven't managed to work in yet is much work on my book.  I have some feedback from an academic friend who read a few chapters and so I need to get back into that project soon.  And, believe it or not, I should also start thinking about my fall classes.  Crazy, but the planning really does start this early. 

We've got a doctor appointment coming up next week, so there will be some new stats to share.  For now, here's a cute photo and a video of her playing with Brian. 




Tuesday, December 27, 2011

Monday, December 26, 2011

Our little elf

We had a fabulous first Christmas with Maya.  Believe it or not, we managed to take only a handful of pictures.  Luckily, there were a lot of other cameras around, so I'm sure we'll get to see more eventually.  For now, here is a shot of Maya in the Christmas outfit Aunt Tricia gave her. 


We celebrated with the Knutsons on Christmas eve morning with a delicious breakfast and then moved downstairs to open gifts.  Both Brian and I pulled off semi-surprises for the other...it's difficult to do when you share a computer and financial accounts!  My surprise was a Nook color and Brian's was a GPS.  We maybe should have coordinated spending on our surprises :)  Maya was also very spoiled this year with toys, books, and clothes.  We came home with a few more hand-me-down toys from Natalie and Harvey which, I'm sure, will make an appearance on the blog soon.  For now, here's a video of some low-tech fun with daddy.

Friday, December 23, 2011

Over the river...

...and through the woods, to grandmothers house we go!

Yep, we're packing up to head over to Rochester for the weekend as soon as Brian gets off work today. Ironically, our drive there actually is over the river (the Minnesota River) and through the woods (Nerstrand-Big Woods)!  Christmas happened to fall on Brian's long weekend, so we have the next three days to enjoy together. 

We will take the computer and I'll try to get a blog post or two up while we're gone.  But, just in case...
MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!

Thursday, December 22, 2011

Best baby award?

At the risk of jinxing myself, I have to say that I think we may just have one of the best babies around.  Consider the evidence...
1.  When I go to get her out of her crib in the morning, she gives me the biggest, gummy grin to start the day.
2.  She plays patiently by herself while I pump and do an exercise video every morning (about 45 minutes of independent play!).
3.  When I put her down for her morning naps, she goes right to sleep without any fussing.
4.  When I put her to bed at night, she goes right to sleep without fussing and then sleeps 4-6 hours.  AND, when I feed her after those 4-6 hours of sleep, she goes right back to sleep without any fuss for another 3-4 hours.

And just look at those cheeks! 


Are you convinced?  Now, for the record, she does usually have a fussy spell sometime between 4 and 10 pm, but it's usually not something that a little cuddling and rocking can't fix.  I realize that babies change and that all of this good stuff could go away tomorrow, but for now, I'm definitely enjoying it!

Tuesday, December 20, 2011

Brian's projects

Now that the cabin is mostly finished and winter is here (kind of...), Brian has had time to take on a few artistic projects.  We were able to get a few of his photos enlarged to poster size (20x30) during the cyber-Monday sales.  Now (with inspiration from my friend Heidi) he is mounting them on canvas (which he built because they don't sell them in the same size as the prints).  Here is the first one he finished...a view of lake Emily in the fall.  This is the view we have from the cabin, though the photo was taken while he was out in the boat.



The other project he is working on is building a "bedroom" for Maya, who currently sleeps in the living room.  Brian came home with three mismatched doors the other day that he got on clearance from Menards.  He's already attached hinges to make a little room.  He has plans to paint it during Christmas break when all the students are gone.  So far it works great.  It helps keep the light and sound out so that Maya can still sleep while we are in the living room or kitchen.
The final photo is one of Maya enjoying a new toy.  Now that she has figured out how to use her hands, the rattle is much more fun.  Of course, like everything else these days, it goes straight in her mouth!

Sunday, December 18, 2011

The Holy Family

Yep, we got suckered into playing Mary, Joseph and Jesus in the church nativity play this year.  When the Sunday school leaders told the kids that Maya Knutson would be playing baby Jesus, they all said, "but she's a GIRL!" 

Maya did great today, though.  She was wide awake for the first service and fell asleep halfway during the second.  One of the "angels" behind us told us afterwords that she fell asleep because they were singing so beautifully.  Other funny highlights included a little one year old girl wandering up to pat "Jesus'" head in the middle of the play, two angels pulling on the tie on the back of Brian's costume while whispering "don't worry, he can't feel it!", and one angel saying to another who announced he was tired, "you just have to keep going!" 

Saturday, December 17, 2011

Sitting up and spitting up

Maya only needs a little bit of help to sit up these days.  Here is the little bookworm with her favorite book.

She seems to get a little bored by my photo shoots, though...
This next one is one to watch ONLY if you find baby spit ups as funny as I do (Mindy, you should definitely not watch it :) )

Thursday, December 15, 2011

A Conversation with Maya

Someone sure had a lot to say this morning...

Tuesday, December 13, 2011

Victory!

I tied for second place in the 5th annual Political Science Cookie Bake Off last night and am now the proud owner of a golden snowflake award!  Every December, we have a competition in the department.  All of the faculty bake cookies and then the students vote for their favorite in a blind taste test.  The competition is always heated and there is usually some controversy.  We have very specific rules...no prepackaged cookies, you must bake them yourself (no spousal help!), and no bars.  Some of my colleagues have trouble following directions :) And then there was the time my colleague, Alisa, lost by one vote because of me (or so she says!).  She made two kinds of cookies and asked me which she should enter.  I picked out my favorite, but they had nuts and one of the students was allergic to nuts and obviously didn't vote for them.  She still blames me for the loss.    Anyway, the event is lots of fun and I'm glad I was included (and that I won a snowflake!).

My second victory is a bit more important...victory over the insurance company!  Yep, after a week of pestering and resubmitting claims, they reimbursed bills for the full amount of my FSA.  Yay!  That is a huge relief for us!

And now, what you really want...

Monday, December 12, 2011

Sunday night photo shoot

Brian set up the camera for a little photo shoot this afternoon.  I wanted a foot shot and he got a good one.
 I also like this one he captured while adjusting the flash because I don't have many photos of me and Maya.  Just ignore the fact that I am cleaning out toe jam with my fingers :)

Sunday, December 11, 2011

Sneaking up on playtime

I tried to sneak up on playtime today so that she wouldn't see the camera and clam up.  You'll notice about halfway through the video she looks in my direction and gets a lot quieter.  That little stinker!
You can also see from this video that she's getting a lot better at using her hands and she is discovering all of the sounds she can make.

Saturday, December 10, 2011

The day of cookies

It's hard to say exactly how many cookies I've baked over the past two days.  I know there were at least six dozen chocolate mint cookies.  There were also peanut butter kiss cookies,
 
sugar cookies, chocolate and vanilla sandwich cookies with raspberry-white chocolate frosting,
 
and -- new to this year's line up -- lemon glazed.

And to wash them down?  Hot apple cider, cocoa, and coffee with mint mocha creamer.  Yum!

We had a good turnout from the students, too.  Many of them stayed through one of the three movies we watched: Elf, The Grinch (Jim Carey version), and National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation.  One student even made it through all three!


Maya did pretty well today, though she was a little crabby this morning and had a hard time napping with all the excitement in the apartment.  After spending all day on my feet, it was nice to lay on the couch with Brian tonight to watch a movie...not a holiday one, though :)

Why we swaddle

As most of you know, we're big fans of the swaddle.  And here's why... (the video is hard to see because of the dark, but you'll get the idea!)

Friday, December 9, 2011

New hat

I got Maya a new winter hat yesterday and it might be the cutest thing ever.  You be the judge...

For those of you who don't live in the tundra like we do, this is what she looks like when we take the stroller up to the Caf for meals. She's got a little fleece sleeping bag that goes in the carseat and zips up to keep her warm.
Yesterday Alan and Cher came over for the day.  They brought a cabinet Brian had been storing in their garage and put it in our garage.  They also hung out with Maya while I went to a meeting and to a yoga class.  It was my first time being back in an exercise class since about a month before she was born and it was awesome!  I work out so much harder when there is peer pressure involved.  Maya loved hanging out with her grandma and grandpa...she even took a nap in grandpa's arms.  After class, we all went to Mankato and met up with Brian for lunch at Culvers.  After lunch, Cher and Alan hung out with Maya a bit longer so I could do some grocery shopping.  What a treat!  Everything is so much quicker and easier without a baby!  

The groceries were preparation for the big event this weekend...my 7th annual Christmas cookie and movie marathon open house!  I have done this event each year in Rundstrom, and it really started out as a tradition with a group of friends in my freshman year of college.  Basically, I spend the entire day baking cookies and watching Christmas movies.  Students come and go all day long eating cookies and watching movies.  It is definitely one of my favorite Rundstrom traditions!  This year I am starting some of the baking today.  I figure it will be a bit more challenging to bake that many cookies in one day with Miss M, so I needed a head start.  There are five kinds of cookies on my list this year.  I'll try to remember to get photos! 

Tuesday, December 6, 2011

Camera shy

We took out the camera the other night to get video of her because she was talking up a storm, but as soon as she saw the camera she got quiet.  So instead of a video of Maya talking, here is one of her being camera shy. :)

Sunday, December 4, 2011

Sunday evening smiles

We had a fairly quiet Sunday.  The three inches of snow we got last night made for beautiful scenery on our way to church this morning.  We came home for lunch and spent the rest of the day hanging around the house.  Brian did fit in a little geocaching this afternoon.  Quite a different night then the one we had last night when we celebrated the holidays with our small group from church: seven families with 20 kids between us!  Not everyone could make it, but it was still a full house.  And some amazing food!
Here's the highlight from tonight...

Santa

Maya had her first visit with Santa.  He made a special appearance at a friend's birthday party, so we didn't even have to wait in line at the mall.  No tears from Maya, but she did seem to be checking him out pretty intently. 

Saturday, December 3, 2011

Friday, December 2, 2011

3 Months Old!

Maya is 3 months old today.  She is awake a lot more, she sleeps 5-7 hours in a stretch at night, she's finding her voice, she loves to suck on things like her hand and blankets, and she smiles a lot. 

Tuesday, November 29, 2011

Bathtime

Maya is nearly three months old, but has only had a handful of real baths.  Okay, four.  It's not because she doesn't like the water, though.  Here she is the other night kicking back in her tub.  She would have hung out there all night if we would have let her!




Also, look at her little thigh rolls!  Too cute!

Monday, November 28, 2011

Maya's First Christmas Season

Maya was pretty impressed by this year's Christmas tree, even though it's just a baby one for the table.  For such a little girl she sure does take up a lot of space in the apartment with all her gear!  This was the only place left for a tree.  Luckily, Alan had a perfect one for us to take home.  I think Maya will like Christmas as much as her parents do!



If you happen to have a 3 month old baby named Maya on your Christmas list this year, you can find some ideas for her on her Amazon gift registry: http://www.amazon.com/registry/baby/Z9SW0DA031B7. 

Sunday, November 27, 2011

Thanksgiving

We took a fast, but fun, trip to Rochester for Thanksgiving.  Brian worked Wednesday and Friday, so we left St. Peter on Wednesday afternoon.  Our first stop was dinner with Jon and Mindy at a nice restaurant in Rochester.  Maya did great and let us sit for 2 1/2 hours to enjoy our meal and the company. 

The Knutson's had the usual big spread for us on Thanksgiving day.  We managed to take only one photo during our entire trip.  Here is Brian's grandpa and Maya.  He is the baby whisperer and Maya happily slept in his arms for over an hour!

 We headed back home on Thursday evening so that Brian could be back in time to get a good night's rest before an early morning Black Friday workday at Menards.  Maya and I also enjoyed some Black Friday shopping.  She did great and it was actually one of my best Black Friday shopping days ever.  Thanks to the midnight openings, most of the stores were calm by the time I got there at 6-7 am.  In fact, the only place I had to wait in line was Menards!  I got almost everything on my list, Maya didn't have a melt down, and I got carry out help from a very nice Menards employee :)

After a long Friday, Brian settled in for a long weekend off (Sat-Mon).  With nothing to work on at the cabin and nowhere to be, Brian will get a taste of the day to day life around the house.  It consists of...

Naps in the swing...



Playtime with Mr. Star Face, Mr. Cardinal, and Ms. Froggy...
And quality time after eating breakfast (don't worry, she's still alive!)...

Wednesday, November 23, 2011

Paying for Maya

Yes, I realize that we will be doing this for the next 18+ years, but I'm currently in the stage of figuring out the payment for her birth.  I've spent the past few days reconciling bills, reading the fine print of our benefits package, on the phone with the insurance company, and in the HR office at Gustavus.  All in all, it's been a very frustrating few days.  I am proud, though, of the fact that I can tell you to the penny what our bills have been and which ones have and have not been reimbursed.  They sure don't make it easy to do that!

I noticed last week that we had paid out more for the bills than we were reimbursed for, even though I thought I had plenty of money to cover it.  When I sent in one of the bills for reimbursement, it was denied due to insufficient funds.  Well that wasn't right, so I got on the phone with the insurance company.  Long story short, the increase in our health care reimbursement pool (our Flexible Spending Account) happened on 9/2, when Maya was born.  However, the "date of service" on the bills is 9/1, when I went into the hospital.  So, the company thatt handles our FSA refused to cover any of the bills associated with Maya's birth because they happened before we had money in the account.  Grrr!  I have a number of frustrations with this.

1.  I asked our HR office in April when we were signing up for benefits if I should put the money in the FSA then or when Maya was born.  They suggested I wait because then I could see what the costs would be...after all, once you put money in the FSA, you lose it unless you spend it on approved medical costs.

2.  Nowhere in our printed information does it state that FSA money added after the birth of a child can only be used to pay for services after the child's birth date.  Everything in the fine print just talks about the fact that services must be provided within the plan year (which I interpret to mean June 1-May 31).  And, of course, no one in the HR office mentioned this either.

3.  I specifically put in $500 extra into the FSA to pay for the lactation consultant because I called the insurance company (spending 30 minutes on the phone with them!) to ask if lactation was covered by my policy.  It wasn't, they assured me.  However, when the bill came, all but $2.10 was covered by insurance.  On one hand, that's great.  I'm so glad my insurance covers lactation consultants.  On the other, WTF!?!  I spent 30 minutes on the phone with you so that you could give me wrong information?  And remember, that the $500 I set aside to pay for this is gone if I can't find an approved medical expense to use it on. 

4.  They also denied over $1,000 of Maya's bill due to insufficient funds.  I'm pretty sure that her date of service is on or after the 2nd.  Oh, and did I mention that according to their records, I still have $2,800 in my FSA? 

Honestly, this has been a very frustrating experience.  I'm hopeful that we will get Maya's bill reimbursed and at least a little more of my bill (I sent them an itemized bill from my hospital stay and will force them to cover everything that happened from the 2nd through the 4th).  But seriously, how much time and effort have I put into this?!  And think about all the people who face similar problems but don't have the time and resources to deal with it!  No wonder insurance companies make such good money!

Okay, I think I have all my venting out.  How about a cute Maya picture to finish things off...after all, even if we have to pay for her twice, she's still worth it!


And here's one of Maya and Harvey in their ducky pjs.  So cute!

Tuesday, November 15, 2011

Trying those videos again

I took Laur and Mindy's suggestions and we're trying those videos again...

Here is Maya in some of her Halloween gear...


And here she is on her play mat.  This is definitely her favorite place to be these days.  At first she just loved staring at the cardinal toy and "Mr. Star Face" who hangs at the top.  But, it turns out that when you put batteries in him, Mr. Star Face also lights up and plays music...what a treat!  It is activated by shaking and she has just about figured out how to start it by pulling on a chain connected to the play mat.  She can get it started herself, I just don't think she's figured out the cause and effect yet.



No snow November

I could definitely get used to this weather!  It's already the 15th and temperatures have been in the 40s and 50s.  I may be getting spoiled!  We took advantage of the sun and of Brian's day off to take a family hike in Seven Mile park.  Maya loved it!  She fell asleep for about three-fourths of it, but the rest of the time she was busy looking around.


Wednesday, November 9, 2011

November catch up

We finally downloaded a bunch of the videos off of the camera, so I have a few old things to share.

Here's a video from Halloween with Maya all decked out in her Halloween gear. This is just one of the four outfits she had, not counting her costume (which, apparently we didn't take any pictures of!).

Here's Maya along with her Head Resident friends. Skyla, in the middle, is five months older and Siri, on the right, is two weeks younger.


Maya's new tricks include holding her head up (which means she can sit in the bumbo chair)

and staring at her cardinal toy

...well, you were going to get videos, but I've tried several times over two days to get them to upload and still can't get it to work. Apparently Blogger does not like these videos. Oh well, you'll have to make due with another cute photo instead.